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President Mary McAleese has many links with the Poor Clares, and for the
past eleven years she has spent a retreat week in the Ennis monastery.
This is an abridged version of an address she gave to Poor Clares
gathered in July to celebrate 50 years of their Federation.
My first introduction to the Poor
Clares: I knew of my grandmother
going to visit the Poor Clares in
Drumshanbo, because she lived not too
far from Drumshanbo. I knew that it was
a place that very often women went to
when times were tough. For her generation
the experience would have been of
small peasant rural families, farmers,
virtually all of whose children emigrated
— in the case of my father, the oldest of
her children, emigrating at 14. I think of
the lost-ness of those women, and of
those husbands too, men who found it
very difficult to articulate their lost-ness.
But they could do it through the grille in
Drumshanbo because there was some
kind of bond there that helped them to
face into what they found difficult to
face. My next experience is of going with
my own mother to the Poor Clares in
Cliftonville Road, in Belfast. Again over
the ups and downs of raising children, in
particular children with a handicap and
children with illnesses, you knew you
could trot to the hospital on the one
hand, but on the other hand, there was
always the extra insurance policy! You
have been the people to whom they went, no matter what doctors were
saying. There was always the gap, and
you were the people who helped them to
fill that gap, and you filled it for them
with hope and with faith.
Not always was the news good, and
very often you had to accompany people
on a life’s journey which was not going to
have a good or a happy outcome. I think
of the thousands of mothers who came to
the Cliftonville Road all during the
Troubles, worried about their children,
about their sons, about the paramilitaries,
and dealing with bereavements
through violence, and all the ups and
downs that people experience in
marriages and relationships, in the workplace,
with drugs, with alcoholism. I
think of the bell that rings so constantly
in Ennis as men and women quietly facing
into the most awful problems in their
lives seek company on their life’s
journey. There’s a lovely old Irish proverb
that says: “Giorraíonn beirt bóthar!” —
“Two shorten the road!” The truth of the
matter is, and you know it better than
anybody from your own life’s experience,
is that you cannot go another person’s
journey in life for them. But we can go with them, and being with them is a
very, very important thing. To be able to
offer somebody company on their life’s
journey is an important thing.
A Hope-filled Innocence
There is no place better than in the
contemplative convent to feel the pulse
of what is going on outside. Often when
I used go and see Mother Paschal in the
Cliftonville Road, I would be shocked that
she would know things that nobody else
knew, she had it. I tell you that the
S.A.S. and every single government intelligence
service in the country know
nothing about intelligence-gathering by
comparison with the Poor Clares! It is the
constant stream of people through the
door, they bring the world in, it gets
absorbed there. There is nothing that you
are shocked by for you have probably
heard it all, ten times, twenty times, a
hundred times. So you live in a world of
great hope, and a kind of a hope-filled
innocence. It is an innocent world but
not a naïve world. You are very knowledgeable
about the world and about the
capacity of the world to carry a lot of
evil. But you are able to wrap that in the firm belief of our capacity to heal one
another, to forgive, to be reconciled, and
importantly to change. And these are
important messages particularly in this
moment when we need people
committed to the work of healing, no
matter how difficult a journey it is, no
matter how fraught that journey is, no
matter how long it is going to take. I
know that you are going to play a very
important role in that journey of healing,
precisely because you have accompanied
so many people in difficult life situations.
The commitment to contemplative
life, in the face of what is really a very
busy, in-your-face world, full of noise,
full of tumult, is such a difficult journey
not well understood by that mad busy
world. But actually somewhere deep
inside people it is deeply respected. One
of the ironies I think, and maybe also one
of the things that came out of the
experience of the new convent in
Belfast, was the realisation that a
pragmatic world, a hard-nosed pragmatic
world, would have said: “Why bother
build a brand new convent, sure the
numbers are going down, why would you
bother?” But the people reacted by
saying: “Actually we are going to bother,
because it matters. It actually matters
because economics is not what we are
talking about here. We are talking about
a perceived need that we think is met
and only met by this form of life.”
One of the great things for me, as I
look at the Poor Clares, is — here are
women who have no source of income
but that which is given to them, that
which is given out of charity. And the
fact is that it is given, it is replenished in
each generation and continues to be
given is such an important vindication of
the work that you do. I think very many
people were shocked at the level of
response to the collection for the new
convent in Belfast. It certainly opened up
the eyes of some of the bishops and
many other people to realise how utterly
loved the Poor Clares are because the
response was quite phenomenal. There
had never been anything like it in the
history of the diocese.
Charism of Clare
It is important to tell you how even our
busy world needs people who make space
for abiding peace and for quiet contemplation,
and especially for making time for one another, looking out for one
another when life brings its
overwhelming sorrows. You have such an
experience of dealing with that realm of
life’s sorrows. There are lots of experts
around who will know pockets of the
overwhelming sorrows that people can
endure in life, but very few people know
them in the way you do because all of
them come to your door so you have an
overview of life that equips you so well
to help where people are wounded and
their lives are fragmented. It is good that
you are there, they seek you quietly.
They are not going to go on the Joe Duffy
Show and say: “You know I am stuck in a waiting room in the Poor Clares and
there’s a queue of 20 in front of me.
What is Mary Harney going to do about
that?” It is not going to happen! A pity in
some ways! You are always there for
them; they will go to you quietly and you
will speak to them quietly, and, as I say,
it will not be charted up anywhere
except in the great chart of human
goodness.
You Poor Clares have an unbroken line
of service that goes way back to the 13th
century. And so we know that for each
generation of Poor Clares, wherever in
the world you have gathered over those
centuries, you faced into that world. You
faced into it with one foot very firmly in
that world, whatever that world’s
demands were, and the other foot very firmly planted in the world of Clare, in the
world of Christ. You try to bring the best
of the charism of Clare to bear on the
world around you; the active world around
you has been a very important part of the
charism of Clare and the experience of the
Poor Clares over those years.
You know that when Clare and Francis
back in their day made their decisions,
they were not thinking eight hundred years
down the line. We deal with what is
around us to take the next steps that help
us to get from this present moment to the
next present moment safely. Importantly,
you do so with the charism of Clare
ferociously at work in and through your lives. I know that in this assembly you seek
guidance, you seek to bring your individual
wisdom, and your collective wisdom, to
important deliberations. I am sure that
what you come up with will be sure-footed
and rooted in goodness. I hope that the
decisions that you make and the insights
that you come up with will help this
Federation to flourish, but more importantly,
in the broader way, help the Poor
Clares to flourish through the next fifty
years.
The Federation is composed
of the seven monasteries in Ireland:
Galway, Dublin, Belfast, Carlow, Cork,
Ennis, Drumshanbo, and one monastery in
Glasgow, Scotland, which was founded by
the Cork Community in 1952.
Each monastery retains its own
identity and autonomy.
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